Why Things Fall Apart Before They Align

If you’ve been doing the mindset work, the healing, the Law of Attraction practices, and instead of life flowing, it feels like things are falling apart, you’re not alone.

This is a phase many people hit on the manifestation journey, yet it’s rarely spoken about honestly. You become more self-aware, more intentional, more conscious… and suddenly relationships feel strained, work no longer fits, or life throws an unexpected curveball that leaves you questioning everything.

From a manifestation and mindset perspective, this isn’t always a block - it’s often a recalibration.

When old beliefs, fear-based patterns, and survival modes are no longer aligned with who you’re becoming, they begin to surface. Structures that once felt solid start to wobble. While it can feel uncomfortable, even exhausting, this phase is often a sign of growth rather than failure.

In Episode 139 of The Salarah K Starre Podcast, I explore why things tend to fall apart just before they align, how manifestation works beyond surface-level Law of Attraction teachings, and how to move through these in-between phases without losing trust in yourself or the process.

If life currently feels like it’s turning upside down, this conversation may help you understand why, and what it’s quietly preparing you for.

🎧 Listen to Episode 139 here or wherever you get your podcasts.

Have you ever reached a point in life where something feels off, but you can’t quite explain why? You’re no longer aligned with who you used to be, yet the next version of you hasn’t fully arrived either. This in-between phase is often misunderstood as being stuck, when in reality it’s a powerful stage of integration. In this post, we explore how this waiting room phase can create manifestation blocks when resisted, how to overcome fear patterns, and why understanding this space is essential if you’re learning how to become magnetic through the laws of attraction rather than force.

Manifestation isn’t a cosmic wish-list, it’s the mirror of your inner world. In this blog, I break down what the law of attraction actually is, how your emotions and nervous system shape what you call in, and why “doing all the right things” still won’t work if the deeper patterns aren’t aligned. If you’ve ever wondered why your manifestations slip away, stall or feel hard to hold, this will make everything click.

The Law of Attraction isn’t just about thinking positively; it’s about aligning your energy through the choices you make every day.
Transformation doesn’t arrive as a lightning bolt; it unfolds through devotion. Through showing up when it’s easier not to, and being honest enough to admit when something no longer feels true.
Consistency builds momentum; self-honesty gives it direction. Together, they turn the principles of the Law of Attraction into real, lived experience, not through force, but through rhythm, truth, and care.

This is the kind of work I do with my clients , helping them uncover the subconscious patterns that keep them stuck, and guiding them back into alignment with who they really are. I bring together emotional healing, energetic recalibration, and the true principles behind manifestation and the Law of Attraction, not the surface-level kind, but the kind that shifts your frequency from within. Because when you’re aligned, you don’t have to force it. You simply become magnetic to what’s meant for you.

It’s all hard.
Staying stuck is hard. Growing is hard.
But one “hard” keeps you small, and the other expands you.
Learn to consciously choose the kind of difficulty that leads to peace, prosperity, and freedom and why the Law of Attraction always mirrors the energy behind your choice.