Choose Your Hard: The Two Realities Always Available to You
đźś‚ Episode 120 | Released 6 October
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Life Will Always Have Its Challenges - The Question Is, Which Kind Are You Choosing?
In this week’s episode of The Salarah K Starre Podcast, we’re diving into a truth most people try to avoid: life is always going to feel hard at times.
It’s hard to stay stuck in cycles of fear, lack, disconnection, or unhealthy habits.
It’s hard to do the inner work of change, rewiring patterns, setting boundaries, and choosing growth over comfort.
But only one kind of hard leads to love, freedom, prosperity, and joy.
This episode explores how to consciously choose the kind of “hard” that liberates you instead of the one that keeps you looping in pain.
The Two Realities Always Available to You
In every moment, you’re living between two realities.
One is born of fear, the version of life defined by scarcity, struggle, and disconnection.
The other is born of desire, the version that flows with love, health, prosperity, and peace.
Either way, it’s hard. But only one pathway leads to freedom.
When you start to see life through this lens, it changes everything. The challenges don’t disappear, they just start to mean something. Each difficulty becomes an invitation to realign with the version of you that’s ready for more.
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The Law of Attraction: You’re Designing Both Realities
The Law of Attraction isn’t about punishment or reward - it’s about conscious creation.
You are always designing both realities:
The one you want, born from clarity, intention, and alignment.
And the one you don’t, created by fear, avoidance, and autopilot patterns.
When you repeat old stories, focus on what you don’t want, or act from fear, you’re feeding the very reality you’re trying to escape.
But when you get clear on what you do want, the love, the peace, the health, the abundance, you give yourself something to move toward.
That clarity allows your energy, your choices, and your actions to finally align.
The Truth About “Hard”
It’s hard living out of alignment.
It’s hard living month to month, hand to mouth.
It’s hard sitting in a relationship that leaves you feeling unseen, disrespected, or unloved.
It’s hard ignoring your health, avoiding responsibility, people-pleasing, or numbing out.
That’s hard.
But it’s also hard to do the work that leads to expansion.
It’s hard to look at your patterns and say, “This stops with me.”
It’s hard to rewire your brain, shift your habits, and stop settling for less.
It’s hard to speak truth when silence has always been safer.
It’s hard to set boundaries when part of you still fears rejection.
That’s hard, too.
So either way, you’re facing difficulty.
But one “hard” keeps you stuck, the other sets you free.
Choose Your Hard
Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Choose your hard.
Debt is hard. Financial discipline is hard. Choose your hard.
Not communicating is hard. Communicating honestly is hard. Choose your hard.
Healing is hard. Staying wounded is hard. Choose your hard.
Life isn’t about finding the path of no resistance.
It’s about consciously choosing the resistance that grows you instead of the resistance that destroys you.
Manifestation Isn’t About Avoiding Difficulty
Manifestation isn’t about bypassing discomfort, it’s about choosing your discomfort with intention.
It’s saying, “Yes, this stretch feels uncomfortable, but I know this is the kind of hard that creates expansion.”
The Law of Attraction responds to your energy.
So when you choose the “hard” that aligns with integrity, love, health, and abundance, you broadcast a frequency of self-worth.
And life mirrors that back.
When you choose the “hard” that keeps you small, rooted in victimhood, fear, or avoidance, the universe mirrors that, too.
Cycles don’t repeat because you’re cursed.
They repeat because, consciously or not, you’re still choosing the same “hard.”
Your Activation: Reflect and Rechoose
Next time life feels heavy, and it will, pause and ask yourself:
Which hard am I choosing?
Am I choosing the hard that keeps me stuck in fear, or the hard that stretches me into freedom?
One way, you’re at the mercy of life.
The other way, you’re co-creating with life.
That’s when you begin to live in alignment with the love, prosperity, and joy your heart has always desired.
Choose wisely.
Choose consciously.
Because you are always one choice away from a completely different reality.
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